Guest Speaker: This One Tip Revolutionized Our Marriage

Today, welcome Kyle Gabhart, author of The Phoenix Marriage, who wanted to share how to revolutionize your marriage.  His experiential story will change how you see your spouse! One weekend in February of 2013, my wife and I attended a weekend marriage conference that rocked our world. The workshop was presented by Dr. David and …

Digital Selfie Scavenger Hunt – Date Night Ideas

This could be alot of fun but requires some pre-planning on one spouses part. Here's what you need to do:  First, come up with an afternoon or evening that you can devote at least 2-4 hours together. Next, come up with at least 10-20 "items" that your spouse will have to find, with you of …

Random Massage-Romance Towards Your Spouse

Put a die on their night table along with a card saying something like the following: Roll the die for a massage 1=Feet 2=Legs 3=Butt 4=Back 5=Shoulders 6=Your choice Modify as best for the two of you. Tell them that when they roll, you will massage. Have a great weekend!

Heads Up! Fun Date Idea…

Here is a fun and inexpensive date idea for you two.  Frisbee Golf…Yes, that’s right, Frisbee Golf. This is what you do beforehand. Go out to a nearby park and lay out the course. Designate anything that is fixed in the park as a hole. This includes trees, benches, signs, and possibly statues. Select at …

Results From the Poll-“How Often Do You Date Your Spouse”

The results are in. We had 479 votes towards the poll we placed on the web site for, "How Often Do You Date Your Spouse?" As you can see, the majority, 56.52%, cry out that the thought of date nights seem crazy due to the time of their lives-Families!!  Children will suck the energy and …

Husbands: 10 Principles to Follow To Keep Your Wife

Lately, Kerry and I have been counseling many couples who are seeking to either restore their marriage or strengthen it.  One question that I have been getting from husbands is this, "How do I keep my wife? I feel like I am losing her."  Too often I see the husbands begin to be complacent and lazy in …

5 things every married couple needs to know about SEX by Dave Willis

A pastor friend of mine, Dave Willis, wrote this article that is excellent and often ignored or brushed off by Christians.  Why, because we shouldn't be talking about SEX out loud...shame on us. Yet, Kerry and I have seen how truly important this is inside the bonds of a husband and wife within their marriage. …

Whatcha Reading??

I enjoy reading and also love delving deeper with those who share the same passion and ideology as I do. You all know that I am big on Families: Marriages and Parenting. I am led to believe that if we as a church body train up parents to be Biblical Parents and train up Husbands …

Romancing Your Wife – 20 Ideas

It seems that during this crazy and fast paced life we all live as husband and wife, and especially as the years increase in our marriages, we forget to romance our spouses. We forget how we treated them when we were dating. They were all we could think of.  We spent many an hour coming …