Wives, may I share a secret with you…a lot of who we are sexually is what we tell ourselves. We all have baggage from our lives. It’s very possible that your bags contain regret from premarital sex. Maybe they contain shame and guilt poured onto you from a parent. There could be heavy bags from sexual …
Guest Post: “Two Hours a Week to Affair Proof Your Marriage” by Gary Thomas
Today's guest author is Gary Thomas. He is a bestselling author and international speaker whose ministry brings people closer to Christ and closer to others. He unites the study of Scripture, church history, and the Christian classics to foster spiritual growth and deeper relationships within the Christian community. Check out his Blog here. Just two hours a …
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Prayer Stones: How Do You Pray For Your Spouse?
If you are ever in my office you will find a small clear container holding polished, iridescent, glass stones. My wife, Kerry, began leaving me these small stones daily, in different locations. They were to be a simple way to tell me that she was praying for me and loving on me. I in …
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Where Are You Centered? God or Spouse?
Wanted to share with a devotion by Gary Thomas, author of Sacred Marriage. This is a foundation that Kerry and I use in our Marriage/Family Counseling…Be God Centered. Take time to read his devotion and see how the Holy Spirit speaks to you: as a spouse, an employee, a student, a parent. …
Practice Biblical Conflict
Last year I was blessed and honored to have officiated 6 weddings. Kerry and I spent time with each of those couples as their Pre-Marriage Counselors. We were privileged to spend time with them and journey with them as they prepared for their marriage and life together as husband and wife. To be able to do …
10 Simple Ways to Love On Your Wife
Husbands, please listen carefully... I want to share with each of you what basic, simple actions you can do to show love to your wife every day. Love doesn't mean five-star restaurants or tropical island getaways. It's the simple things that matter most. While dream vacations and life milestones are important, it’s the simple things …
5 Things Happily Married Couples Do Not Do…
You know who these couples are. You see them out to lunch, laughing and comfortable in each other’s presence, giving each other their full attention. They are affectionate, even after years of togetherness. And they genuinely like each other; it’s as plain as the nose on your face. You can’t imagine them not being able …
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5 Ways to be Sexually Playful While Clothed…Seriously, Clothed!
We will be very open and honest with you all. There are many nights that sex seems to be the last thing on both mine and Kerry's mind by the time we fall into bed at the end of the day. Although, mine are less than Kerry's...just saying. How many of you can make the same claim that we …
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Four Nuggets of Biblical Truth for Every Marriage
Kerry and I felt the calling to come together in ministry as Biblical marriage/family counselors in 2010. We have noticed all the books, the blogs, the videos out there that will help to “restore” or “fix” your marriage quick. However, we both agree that the place to start and finish is God’s Word. What we have …
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Guest Post: “Why is reaching Orgasm so easy for a man and so hard for a woman?”
Ladies, I would like to share this post from the Blog, To Love Honor and Vacuum. This is a great blog for you ladies and one that I enjoy reading. So take some time to read and understand the "Whys" and the "What Abouts" in our marriages as it pertains to sex with our husbands. -Kerry …
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PURSUIT OF MARRIAGE 