There is nothing more annoying in a marriage relationship than a proud spouse. Pity the one who is married to a proud husband or a haughty wife. A proud spouse does not see the need to apologize. A proud spouse thinks they are always right, even when they are dead wrong. Even when it is …
Top 10 Items for Your Bedroom
We received some very interesting comments from last Monday’s blog post-Sleep Naked with Your Spouse. As an overall response, most felt that sleeping naked was too awkward and uncomfortable. O.K, Kerry and I agree that initially it can be uncomfortable and maybe, even make matters worse in your marriage. So, instead, we decided to invest …
Social Media or Your Spouse? Which Do You Choose?
Yup, Social Media Can Erode Your Emotional Bond With Your Spouse Cellphones, Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, Twitter and other forms of Social Media can either bless or break a marriage. When we learn to use these tools within the parameters of our marriage covenant, they can then greatly enhance communication between a husband and wife. However, …
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Sleep Naked with Your Spouse!
Ya know another plus of being married...you get to have a slumber party with your best friend...EVERY NIGHT!! Sometimes it is the simplest things that can really amp up your marriage, sleeping naked is one of those simple things you can do to improve your marriage. Before you start throwing up objections and protests, read …
DATE NIGHT!!
Here we are again...It's Wednesday and maybe now is the time to be making plans for the weekend. So here are 6 fun and inexpensive ideas for the weekend... Photobomb another couple's date together. Have a picnic someplace random, like the roof of your house, during a car wash, the front yard of a home …
Where Are You Centered? God or Spouse?
Wanted to share with a devotion by Gary Thomas, author of Sacred Marriage. This is a foundation that Kerry and I use in our Marriage/Family Counseling…Be God Centered. Take time to read his devotion and see how the Holy Spirit speaks to you: as a spouse, an employee, a student, a parent. …
DATE NIGHT!!!
Yes, it's only Wednesday; however, start planning now for your date night with your spouse this weekend... Like we told ya, we would share a list of 6 inexpensive, yet very memorable ideas you two can do this weekend on your date night. Curl up in bed together and watch a romantic comedy. Turn on …
Practice Biblical Conflict
Last year I was blessed and honored to have officiated 6 weddings.  Kerry and I spent time with each of those couples as their Pre-Marriage Counselors. We were privileged to spend time with them and journey with them as they prepared for their marriage and life together as husband and wife. To be able to do …
3 Things God Will Not Do in Your Marriage…
Kerry and I truly believe that most people who live on this earth as Christians/Followers of Christ desire to conduct their marriages per the principles set forth by God, and we appreciate that. The Bible is full of instructions and guidelines to help point you in the right direction for a joyful, Holy union. The …
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Invest In Your Marriage
This week Kerry and I are in Ruidoso, NM. We rented a cabin for a few days during Kerry's Spring Break. It's a romantic cabin in the woods, fully equipped with a private deck, a fireplace, a kitchen and a king sized bed. Yup, it's just the two of us for the week. Time for …

